Cookin’ tonight just keep on tokin’

Kinda! A girl at work got one of those e-cigs, which is to say a vapor-pipe or whatever the kids call it.

She was waving it around. Naturally, I said, ‘Yo, can I get a toke of that?’ She passed it to the left-hand-side and I went to inhale…

COUGHCOUGHCOUGH for the next hour. It made for good laughs in the office. Glad I could help everybody out.

Guess my tokin’ days are done, eh?

Something else ‘done’ is the fitness DVD giveaway. I got ONE contestant (via private message). WINNER! -without Bobby choosing, he’s okay with that because we had a fashion show last night*

I can’t believe people weren’t interested! I’m one of those eedjits who signs up for winning EVERYTHING. I seem to have a gift for winning glassware. I’m forever giving that away (cos I don’t have space let alone ‘decor’ to match nice things — just give me a couple of whiskey glasses and a couple of pints and I’m grand).

-ex-midnight toker

Allegedly. I am a Joker, voted Class Clown in grade 6.

-are the new readers gone yet?

MasterMike said he gave up tokin’ in the Army. He even ‘wrote’ a cadence (think STRIPES).

I used to smoke dope, like all the rest

But that was before the urine test

Now we drink beer, we’re up all night

And run all day, so we’re fit to fight


* I meant to get stamps and pick up RX last night but the flooding detours PLUS accidents made that impossible (at least for a while). I had some super couponery for Kohl’s. Nearly lost my damned mind. I got over $200 worth of swag for $20 (a savings of $192). It’s funny cos the young boy/man ringing me out almost lost his shit, too. The lady behind me got, ‘You saved $5 on your total.’

gollumMWAHAHAHAHAHAHA I can have all the things because I’m an insane bargain huntress. Granted, I may not get what I want when I want it but I wait


Quadruple bypass; a surprise lesson in family history

Wednesday, mum went into cardiac arrest at home (the family ranch is 1 hour from nearest hospital). Very luckily, my father found her, dialled 911 & commenced chest compressions, as he was told. Twenty minutes later, EMS arrived and commenced working on her.

We’ve been told by multiple RNs and doctors that when they hear somebody say, “I gave them CPR,” they don’t believe it. Aparently, most laymen–non-medical professionals–can’t/ don’t do it right. My mother is 4’10” and weighs 80lb. My father is 6’2″ and about 180. My theory is he had the strength and leverage to do it right. For two days following, he kept asking if he had broken her ribs. Well, he hadn’t…

The cardiology surgeon did when they sawed through her sternum and broke the ribs (“cracking the chest”) to perform quadruple bypass surgery. They told us it would take 5 hours. It took 3.5. While shorter sounds better, that scared us:

•couldn’t they “fix” her?

•where’s the doctor?

Surgeons “always” come out to speak with family following surgery. He did not. My brother is less than satisfied.

It meant we worried and worried and worried all day.

a) nobody is allowed in day of surgery

b) at 2 hours post-op, they try to get her off life support — they want this done by hour 4

c) she was on life support from 6:30AM til 6:30PM…she has an advanced directive (“don’t keep me on life support”), so this was getting scary

She’s tired. Mentally, she lost 4 days. She can’t feed herself, so I’ve been feeding her while in hospital but they say by Friday or next Monday she should be able to feed herself, use toilet and shower. Sounds great!

In “news” but about me:

First let’s cover the happy stuff:

Brother decided since having only catnaps since Wednesday-last, he and I would break out of the hospital on Sunday (planned since last spring, to attend the St. Louis Rock and Roll Marathon as my “birthday party”). We got there at 10AM. The race was going strong. So.Much.Fun! When I say “fun,” I mean live music, happy faces, runners and that bottle of bubbly I downed along with a few shots of whiskey.

I didn’t see Angela and Rob 😦

a) I was too drunk to make sense to anybody

b) We stayed as long as we could because Brother had to pick up his kids! Also, he had to drop me at hospital before picking up his kids — these are all in different counties, let alone cities

What sweeter image than a drunken, adult woman taking a nap in the ICU next to her broken mother, eh? Oh, staff must think lovely things about me…

Now the Serious:

Heart disease was a family secret. I didn’t know. Dad didn’t know about her family having this and they’ve been married 48 years.

Mum did. The jig is up: she obviously has it, her sister has it, their mother had it and her mother had it. My father’s mother died of cardiac arrest in her 50s.

The cardiology nurse gave me all kinds of gyp about not having my own cardiologist (I’m 41 Thursday). I DIDN’T KNOW WE HAD HEART DISEASE. When people died, they said it was other causes.

As soon as possible, I need to get my own cardiologist and have a stress test for starters (luckily, I have been getting yearly physicals so it’s not that I’ve ignored my health, it’s that I had ZERO clue that my heart should’ve been given extra tests/ care.